Spy gear for cheating
If you suspect that your significant other may be cheating on you, but they keep telling you that you’re being crazy, paranoid, suspicious, or seem offended by your lack of trust, then you probably want to know for certain if your suspicions are unfounded or not. The worst thing that a cheater does is lie to you. They sell you a story about your life and when you find out that it isn’t true it destroys your self-esteem because you feel like a fool for believing them and believing in them. Lying to some, especially over and over, and especially for making them feel like they’re crazy, paranoid and cannot trust their own instincts is an extremely cruel thing to do. So this is a step by step guide to catch your significant other cheating in the act.
Step One: Confrontation
So you’ve suspected your significant other of cheating, but haven’t confronted them yet. That should be the first step in this process. You should give them the chance to be upfront about the infidelity and see if that gets you anywhere. Don’t ask any questions you don’t want to know the answer to, but on the other hand you do deserve to know if your partner has been unfaithful. Your instincts on these things are generally going to be correct, so if there’s a lot of conflicting stories, and a lot elaborate explanations, you know that something is going on.
If they make any accusation of you at all or attempt to say you’re stupid, crazy, paranoid, or anything else, then you’re best bet is to ditch them right there. They lack empathy and they respond to suspicion by attacking, that could be a clear sign of an underlying personality disorder, and at that point, who cares if they’re cheating on you or not? Just run.
Even a decent human being however wants to protect the feelings of someone they care about, and a lot of times they’ll do this by telling a comfortable lie as opposed to acknowledging an uncomfortable truth, and a lot of times the person asking gift wraps that lie for them by unconsciously signalling what they want to hear. In this instance the individual will not make insinuations about your sanity or your intelligence. They will respond by telling you how much they care about you and how important you are to them. And even if that is a lie, many will choose to believe it.
If their explanation isn’t good enough for you, then you can proceed to step 2.
Step Two: Spy Tech
If you still have your doubts then there is spy tech to catch a cheater that ranges to varying degrees of invasiveness. Recording tech used to catch a cheater may be a good option.
Hidden cams can be useful for recording cheaters in the act. The trick is knowing when and where they’re going to do their cheating. Cameras that are also alarm clocks are good options because they fit right into your typical bedroom scenario.
Hidden microphone recorders can also be an effective way to catch a cheater, but the same law applies. You need to know where they’re going to be. USB sticks, pens, and keychains are all unlikely devices that can be made into recording devices.
Most of these devices will run you between $80 and $200 so you should do your research before you buy them. For audio devices you’re going to want to know what their range is. Some are quite large.