Month: February 2017

Using recording devices to catch them cheating

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If you suspect that your significant other may be cheating on you, but they keep telling you that you’re being crazy, paranoid, suspicious, or seem offended by your lack of trust, then you probably want to know for certain if your suspicions are unfounded or not. The worst thing that a cheater does is lie to you. They sell you a story about your life and when you find out that it isn’t true it destroys your self-esteem because you feel like a fool for believing them and believing in them. Lying to some, especially over and over, and especially for making them feel like they’re crazy, paranoid and cannot trust their own instincts is an extremely cruel thing to do. So this is a step by step guide to catch your significant other cheating in the act.

Step One: Confrontation

So you’ve suspected your significant other of cheating, but haven’t confronted them yet. That should be the first step in this process. You should give them the chance to be upfront about the infidelity and see if that gets you anywhere. Don’t ask any questions you don’t want to know the answer to, but on the other hand you do deserve to know if your partner has been unfaithful. Your instincts on these things are generally going to be correct, so if there’s a lot of conflicting stories, and a lot elaborate explanations, you know that something is going on.

If they make any accusation of you at all or attempt to say you’re stupid, crazy, paranoid, or anything else, then you’re best bet is to ditch them right there. They lack empathy and they respond to suspicion by attacking, that could be a clear sign of an underlying personality disorder, and at that point, who cares if they’re cheating on you or not? Just run.

Even a decent human being however wants to protect the feelings of someone they care about, and a lot of times they’ll do this by telling a comfortable lie as opposed to acknowledging an uncomfortable truth, and a lot of times the person asking gift wraps that lie for them by unconsciously signalling what they want to hear. In this instance the individual will not make insinuations about your sanity or your intelligence. They will respond by telling you how much they care about you and how important you are to them. And even if that is a lie, many will choose to believe it.

If their explanation isn’t good enough for you, then you can proceed to step 2.

Step Two: Spy Tech

If you still have your doubts then there is spy tech to catch a cheater that ranges to varying degrees of invasiveness. Recording tech used to catch a cheater may be a good option.

Hidden Cams

Hidden cams can be useful for recording cheaters in the act. The trick is knowing when and where they’re going to do their cheating. Cameras that are also alarm clocks are good options because they fit right into your typical bedroom scenario.

Hidden Mics

Hidden microphone recorders can also be an effective way to catch a cheater, but the same law applies. You need to know where they’re going to be. USB sticks, pens, and keychains are all unlikely devices that can be made into recording devices.

Most of these devices will run you between $80 and $200 so you should do your research before you buy them. For audio devices you’re going to want to know what their range is. Some are quite large.

Using a stalking app to catch a cheater

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Using a stalking app to catch a cheater

Mobile spyware was created for overbearing parents to keep tabs on their children, but it can also be used to catch a cheater. So-called stalking apps are the perfect piece of tech to catch cheaters. The problem is the ethics of using what is essentially spy-grade tech in order to keep tabs on your significant other. If you suspect your spouse of cheating that’s one thing, but if you’re the kind of person who needs to know every single thing your wife, husband, girlfriend, or boyfriend are doing and saying, then you may want to take a look in the mirror. On the other hand if you’re at the point where you think your spouse is cheating, there may be cheaper or less invasive ways of determining that.

Still, if you have your heart set on spy tech, then here are your options.

mSpy for iOS and Android

mSpy is a powerful piece of software and is extremely simple to use. The best part of using mSpy is that it allows you to invade the device without having to jailbreak it (which voids the warranty and constitutes property damage when done without the foreknowledge of the individual). In fact, you don’t even need to install any extraneous software on the device. Activity is simply extracted from iCloud and can be viewed in a web-panel.

If you have the Android version, you can also monitor all keystrokes entered on the device to record chats through popular apps like Skype and WhatsApp.

Geofencing is a popular feature for parents who want to get updates on where their children are going. This feature can be useful to suspicious spouses as well. mSpy will send alerts to your phone whenever your spouse leaves specified “permitted” areas. This data is returned to you in map form, so if the husband or wife is making a pitstop at the motel during their lunch break, then you’ll know about it.

Highster for Android

Highster is the best piece of tech for catching cheaters / monitoring children, available for Android. The best part of of Highster is that it allows you monitor your possibly cheating spouse’s social media updates, including Facebook, Twitter, Skype, and even email messages.

Another useful cheating tech feature is the ability to monitor where the device is at all times. Highster can report back the exact location of the device on a map within the control panel.

Highster offers some NSA quality features. An individual employing Highster to monitor a phone can initiate the phone’s camera in order to take covert pictures of their significant other without their knowledge, and you can even record the pertinent metadata from from incoming and outgoing calls. Photos and videos can be accessed as well as browser history, text messages, and contacts. All the things that Snowden warned you about in one app.

Using tech for catching cheaters

One question you’re going to want to ask yourself is whether or not it’s worth going through all the trouble of catching your spouse or significant other in the act of cheating using an expensive NSA-grade spy appl. If you’re already questioning their fidelity or have reason to believe they’re cheating on you, your best bet is to confront them about it. By the time you’ve made a commitment to wiretapping your mate, the trust that should be there, has already been breached.